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Darrel Kayl

Darrel Joseph Kayl, 18, of Ponca drowned June 16, 1985 in the Missouri River.A Memorial service was held Monday, June 24, at St Joseph Catholic Church in Ponca with Rev. Patrick Caroll officiating. Burial was at Calvary at South Creek, rural Ponca. The Mohr Funeral Home was in charge.Mr. Kayl was born Nov. 13, 1966, at Sioux City. He graduated from Ponca High School in 1985. He worked at Elms Health Care in Ponca as a nurses-aide and also farmed with his father. He had enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corp and was to leave in December.Mr. Kayl was a member of the St. Joseph Catholic Church.Survivors include his parents, Gary and Germaine Kayl of Ponca;two brothers, his twin Daniel, and Michael, both at home; five sisters, Ginny, Maureen, Katie, Christine, and Sarah, all at home; paternal grandfather, Ray Kayl of Ponca; maternal grandfather, George Hagarty of Sioux City. The GiftOn June 16th, we felt the Hand of God--Sadly--through the loss of Darrel.  And we pulled our family together into a cocoon of sorrow.  Time stood still.Then slowly through the week came the realization that our community of friends was offering the most precious commodity of all in this busy world; the gift of time.  Perhaps it was the time it took to stir a cake, prepare a salad, shop for a thoughtful item, make a phone call or sit with us and make us smile. Or time sitting vigil for us on the bank of the feared river, crying with us, "Give us back our own," or the time to say a prayer, hug someone else's saddened teenager, or steer a boat, or dry a dish.  Or the time to search, or feed those who watched the water--and waited.  Perhaps the gift was driving a tractor, lowering a flag--or holding us tight---a donation---a card---The Gift of Time.We are awed by your great gift.  We cannot repay you; we don't know where to start. Time cannot be borrowed, bartered or bought.  We only know that through your gift we again felt the Hand of God---gently.Thank you,The Family of Darrel Kayl

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